YEL 072: Why Opposites Push Your Buttons | How To Get On With Them | They Ain’t Changing

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  • December 19, 2019
Why Opposites Push Your Buttons | How To Get On With Them | They Ain’t Changing

Why Opposites Push Your Buttons | How To Get On With Them | They Ain’t ChangingJust back from taking Sarah for a facial at @_littlecompany As mentioned a couple of episodes back, some calm time is essential amidst the chaos of Christmas!Do you live with people in your life who are SO DIFFERENT to you – OPPOSITE in fact? My boy Darby is an extrovert like his Dad whereas Maya is more on the introverted side. It is unlikely to ever change. In your key relationships you will likely find an exhaustive list of opposite behaviors. For Sarah and I we are so different in so many ways (as I explain in the video). I love noise she loves quiet. I love urgency Sarah loves calm. I devour Sarah savours. And so on. Our UPBRINGINGS were also very different. They won’t change – Private School v Public SchoolCity v CountryParents Separated v parents TogetherTwo Sisters v Two BrothersOldest v YoungestThese are things you cannot change. The best thing you can do is ask yourself why is it AWESOME that people close to you are DIFFERENT … so different they are almost your equal opposite!Sarah – loves staying at home. I like to bolt out the door in the morning. Sarah loves to ease in to the day. It’s a great balance.Where do the opposites in your family complement each other? And no matter how much you may resist the opposite, it is complimentary to you and guiding you forward. 🙏

Posted by Marcus Pearce on Wednesday, 18 December 2019

Just back from taking Sarah for a facial at @_littlecompany As mentioned a couple of episodes back, some calm time is essential amidst the chaos of Christmas!

Do you live with people in your life who are SO DIFFERENT to you – OPPOSITE in fact? My boy Darby is an extrovert like his Dad whereas Maya is more on the introverted side. It is unlikely to ever change.

In your key relationships you will likely find an exhaustive list of opposite behaviors.

For Sarah and I we are so different in so many ways (as I explain in the video).

I love noise she loves quiet. I love urgency Sarah loves calm. I devour Sarah savours. And so on.

Our UPBRINGINGS were also very different. They won’t change –

Private School v Public School
City v Country
Parents Separated v parents Together
Two Sisters v Two Brothers
Oldest v Youngest

These are things you cannot change.

The best thing you can do is ask yourself why is it AWESOME that people close to you are DIFFERENT … so different they are almost your equal opposite!

Sarah – loves staying at home.
I like to bolt out the door in the morning. Sarah loves to ease in to the day. It’s a great balance.

Where do the opposites in your family complement each other? And no matter how much you may resist the opposite, it is complimentary to you and guiding you forward. 🙏

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